Journey’s End – On Reaching a Major Goal

“It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves.”                                 ~ Sir Edmund Hillary

Today I am on the eve of accomplishing an important personal goal. A goal I have worked on for 9 long years. A goal I once thought was unattainable. Tomorrow the world magically changes with the accomplishment of this goal. I have worked long and hard to be where I am, and I am ready to cross the finish line; grateful for the opportunity. Tomorrow I will have a tremendous burden finally lifted from my shoulders, and I will go free. What do I want to create with this renewed sense of freedom, I wonder? If I am no longer defined by my old reality, who am I now? Tomorrow will be time enough to sort it all out, to celebrate. Today it feels right to reflect on my journey. I am proud of my achievement, and a private, quiet, joyful freedom envelops me. Feeling gratitude right down to my soul. This has been a journey I have shared with only a few, and for your support I am grateful. And…when I wake up in the morning, colors will be brighter, the air fresher and everything is possible. Bring it!!

11.11.11 at 11:11 – Make a Wish. Make a Wish.

“Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” ~ Michael Jordan

What better time than now to make a wish? I remember when my daughter was a young girl, whenever she noticed the clock  reflecting “11:11″ she would quickly say”11-11-Make-a-Wish!!” sort of like it was one word, and we always made a wish. As a matter of fact, I still find myself doing just that.

Today is 11.11.11, which happens to be a pretty swell date.  If we add to that the special binary quality of 11.11.11, at 11:11:11 o’clock, who knows what could happen? There are all sorts of beliefs that there is real significance about this day.  In the Mayan Calendar  realm, it’s thought to be a spiritual signal linked to 2012 Mayan prophecies of both doom and spiritual renewal. Some folks even believe that “spirit guardians” use 11:11 and 11.11 as playful prompts to let us know they are here., waiting to help us in all manner of things. Just how many of these spirit guardians are there? 1,111 of course!

Just suspend your disbelief for a minute and have fun with this, OK? If you could make a wish or two, what would you wish for? For yourself, for the world around you, for the planet? Here are a few of my wishes:

  • I wish for health, happiness and prosperity for us all.
  • I wish we become one again, as in 100% not 99% vs 1% – all focused on equality,  peace, and abundance.
  • I wish for a more sustainable, greener planet, where people are aware and involved in being good stewards of this world we all live in.
  • I wish for creativity, love and compassion to know no boundaries.
  • I wish for laughter and joy.
What do you wish for?  

How Clear is YOUR Brand?

What happens when your brand image is confusing, and not congruent to what you are offering? People can become disengaged, disoriented and even disenchanted. Let’s take a local restaurant that opened in 2008, and is part of the best, and most expensive market in town. The arrival of this establishment was highly anticipated for this exclusive neighborhood, who had been waiting for just such a place to call their own.

Over a wonderful dinner at this restaurant with some very good foodie friends of mine recently, something very interesting began to happen. People started noticing things. Things that felt kind of “off,” such as the decor seemed dated and stuffy, odd for a restaurant only 4 years old.  This is a very upscale, pricey restaurant with a great reputation, that serves amazing food. Someone mentioned a past experience or two at this restaurant where the food was less that superb, and everyone began looking at things with a more critical eye. The steak was too fatty, the desert was too dry and crumbly. I had a bite, and it was rather tasteless and dry.

The oddest thing about all of this is that this was very unusual behavior for these people. I have been privileged to dine out with them often, and they always see the positive in restaurants, food, etc., even it was a real stretch. So I wondered aloud if how the restaurant was presenting themselves was in alignment with their brand image. I’m guessing it was not. Their name had “Kitchen” in it, and since I had not been a guest before, I expected to find fabulously fresh food, wonderfully and thoughtfully prepared, in a relaxed, comfortable atmosphere. No pretentiousness. Open, airy, fresh. Instead, from the moment we walked in, it felt overstuffed, with dark floral paintings hung too low and half obstructing the light from a window. Heavy velvet drapes, overdone. Fussy. Which again was a disconnect from the very friendly, knowledgeable and helpful wait staff.

There were so many mixed signals this place was sending off. The menu changes weekly, and this week the featured deserts were kind of tied in to Halloween, which is in a couple of days.  There was a pumpkin tart, a ”Whatchamacallit” (similar to the candy bar by that name) and even a Trick or Treat bag made of a thin layer of dark chocolate with housemade tangerine and vanilla semifreddo inside. Yummy!  Problem was, the theme was kind of half-baked, as many other deserts had nothing to do with the holiday. It would have been fun to see all the deserts reflect this, and what a great way for adults to give in to the guilty and calorie laden pleasures of remembered celebrations in their childhood.

The market and the “kitchen” are also celebrating “American Cheese Month” which was mentioned as an aside, and not celebrated in the dishes that contained said cheeses. How difficult would it have been in either case to fully commit to a theme and run with it? Or, to just drop the theme idea altogether?

The restaurant’s brand identity is unclear and so how they show up is confused. It would be so much more powerful to present a clear, congruent brand. I bet it would have even been more effortless for that pastry chef to create inspired names for her deserts, and the waiter to embrace the cheesy theme of the month. As it is, many details felt more like an afterthought.All that being said, I have to be honest about now and say that every bite of the food that I tasted (and we did some sharing, so I tasted many different items) was absolutely wonderful (except the bite of cake I mentioned earlier) and that the company I was with was even more wonderful.

Still, the thought of a clear brand image lingers. Take a look at your own brand. How does it reflect who you are what what you want to create? If it is “off,” what better time than now to change it to clearly reflect your unique brand identity?

Well Said, Seth!

One of my new favorite writing quotes comes from the wise, wonderful and witty Seth Godin  - “No one ever gets talker’s block. No one wakes up in the morning, discovers he has nothing to say and sits quietly, for days or weeks, until the muse hits, until the moment is right, until all the craziness in his life has died down. Write like you talk. Often.”

How true. It kind of just puts it all in perspective, right? So, write!

On Your Mark, Get Set, COACH!

“You will never be completely ready, so start from wherever you are.” ~ C.J. Hayden, Get Clients Now!

Whenever I begin a new coaching group, such as On Your Mark, Get Set, COACH!  this quote comes to mind, and I even use it in my marketing occasionally. This is one of my all-time favorite quotes, ever since I was finishing my training and beginning to build my own coaching business ten years ago. I say it often (and credit C.J Hayden, of course) to clients, and other coaches.

As I was getting started, Get Clients Now was my go-to for all things marketing. I even had the occasion to hear the author speak at an ICF event when she was promoting the 2nd edition of her book. And, yes, the quote is still in there, intact. When I spoke with her, I actually embarrassed myself and did the geeky-coach thing and told her how often I share this with coaches near and far – and always mention her and the book.

Why do I like this quote so much? It is a call to action, and to letting go of perfection, a little bit like Nike’s “Just Do It!” Think of all the times you are stopped when you are building your business; “When I am through training,” “When Summer is over” “when I have more time” “when-when-when…”

What if NOW were the time to become unstoppable?  There’s still time to register for ON Your Mark, Get Set, Coach! What are you waiting for?

Wise Words from Winnie (the Pooh)

“Don’t underestimate the value of Doing Nothing, of just going along, listening to all the things you can’t hear, and not bothering.” ~ a.a. milne, Winnie the Pooh

You just have to love the wisdom of Winnie the Pooh, right? Truth be told, many of us have been trying to capture the essence of this very thought by quieting our minds in one way or another. Or at least attempting to. What we are talking about is the joy of allowing the be-ing of being in the present moment unfold. No pressure, no expectations placed on us, by ourselves or by others. And not bothering…Genius!!

Relax, Renew, Recharge and REPLENISH

At the end of a lovely, playfully productive weekend, I realize what I really did was replenish my spirit. It was a way to be kind to myself, my business, and my clients. Sometimes, when we are doing work that we love, it is hard to step away, slow down and replenish ourselves. Paradoxically, it can be the most important work that we do, and one that many of us all too often ignore. What do I mean by replenish? To restore, renew, restock and generally fill ourselves up with anabolic energy. How we do this, I imagine, is different for each of us, and for our clients as well. Because, it is vital that they, too, take time to replenish themselves.

Most of us have a day or two off from our work every week, but how often do we honor the time with things that will restore our true sense of self? We may spend the time getting all the chores of the week done, or fulfilling social obligations (you know, the have-to-even-if-you-don’t-want-to invites we all get from time to time) taking on projects that are not particularly inspiring, and the list goes on.

What if we could have another list? A list of things that DO replenish our tired minds, bodies and spirits? Take a minute or two and think about what you can do to replenish yourself on a day or two away from work. What would make the cut? Here are a few ideas from my list to get you started:

  • Go for a stroll and YES, take time to smell the flowers
  • Pick up a good book that is inspiring
  • Go shoe or antique shopping
  • Talk to friends and family who restore me
  • Have a cappuccino with a buddy
  • Bask in the sunshine
  • Watch a laugh out loud movie or old TV show (currently, I am renting Frasier from Netflix)
  • Eat healthy fruits and veggies (go to the farmer’s market for wonderful new discoveries)
  • Write
  • Get a pedicure (this is not just for women, promise)
  • Meditate
  • Knit or do something else creative
  • Be GRATEFUL
You know what? I do feel absolutely replenished, and ready for a creatively productive week. I wonder what else I can add to my list? 
OK, now it’s your turn…what’s on YOUR list?